Blocked Care? How to Enjoy Parenting Again

I want to share with you what I learned about blocked care and give you hope that we can overcome the conflicts we experience with our children. That these ill-feelings are not just the result of poor parenting techniques or broken children, but sometimes they arise from our own overtaxed or even underdeveloped parenting brains. And there are ways to help our brain parent better.

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Beyond Temperament: Parenting the Emotions

If we want our children to be successful in life, then we have to school them in the emotions. This is Daniel Goleman’s running thesis in Emotional Intelligence: Why it can matter more than IQ, a pioneering book that helped bring emotional intelligence into homes and classrooms. Drawing on brain and behavioural research, Goleman’s primary purpose is to explain that education and IQ alone don’t determine positive life outcomes. Rather healthy self-awareness, self-discipline, and empathy help a person stay afloat in life.

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Jordan Peterson's Advice on Maintaining the Romance in Your Relationship

Romantic relationships can be unpredictable and chaotic. How do we adapt to change and keep the romance afloat? Jordan Peterson’s Rule X, from his new book Beyond Order, is about negotiation. Negotiating our needs together as a couple leads to goodwill, mutual regard, and heartfelt cooperation—all of which is needed for romance to flourish.

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