The Melancholic Wife - Interview
In this podcast episode, Gerhard and Jocelyne interview Marie-Rose Quenneville, a wife and mother of five. Marie-Rose gives us a greater insight as to what it looks like to be both a mother and a wife as a melancholic woman. Her secondary temperament is phlegmatic.
As we discuss in our podcast on the four temperaments, the melancholic temperament is generally introverted, sensitive, and detail-oriented. Temperament is the matter from which we can derive our personality—it is not considered something we can change, but it is something we can learn to balance and develop. There are mature and immature versions of every temperament. There are also temperament blends; the melancholic can be blended with either the choleric or the phlegmatic temperaments.
In this podcast, we discuss some elements of the melancholic personality and how they play out in day-to-day life. Here is the list of adjectives that we derived from Art and Laraine Bennett’s The Temperament God Gave You:
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In this podcast episode, Gerhard and Jocelyne interview Marie-Rose Quenneville, a wife and mother of five. Marie-Rose gives us a greater insight as to what it looks like to be both a mother and a wife as a melancholic woman. Her secondary temperament is phlegmatic.
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New for our podcast series: We interviewed our friend, Steve Holt, father of three, on what it means to be a melancholic husband and father.
Steve’s secondary temperament is phlegmatic, and with his engineering and military background, he brings out the dutiful, idealist, and noble side of the melancholic.